I applied but haven’t heard back. What's the status of my application?
We’re incredibly grateful to have received thousands of applications. Each submission is reviewed thoughtfully and with care. We evaluate alignment with our current members, geographic fit, and overall compatibility with the community as it exists today.
We only invite individuals to move forward when we feel confident it is a strong mutual fit, both that the community will serve you well and that you will add meaningfully to it. For that reason, we will never accept a fee from anyone we do not believe we can properly support at this time.
Is there a cost?
Yes. There is a membership fee.
It is meaningfully more expensive than dating apps, and intentionally so. The fee reflects the human care, discretion, and involvement built into the experience, along with access to a community of people who are serious, thoughtful, and aligned in their intentions.
At the same time, it is significantly less expensive than traditional matchmaking services. As the community continues to grow, pricing will increase in the new year.
Have people been successful?
Yes. In a two and a half month period, members of our Core community have formed serious relationships, ongoing dating connections of three dates or more, and meaningful connections.
Is this community nationwide?
We currently operate in select markets.
Our highest priority is ensuring that each market has a strong and active member base so that everyone has access to a meaningful pool of potential partners. We will only expand into new regions when we are confident we can properly serve our members there. Growth is thoughtful, deliberate, and driven by quality rather than speed.
What does the membership include?
The Core is centered on meaningful, intentional, and transparent connections based on alignment, shared values, interests, and fundamental compatibility.
In addition to curated introductions, membership includes access to thoughtfully designed events, content, and other value add opportunities that foster connection, trust, and community beyond one to one connections.
Why do women have to pay?
Everyone is treated equally. The investment is comparable to a year of daily lattes or a single luxury purchase.
This is one of the most important decisions of your life, and we only accept members who understand that and are fully committed. Many of our members asked to join and were eager to invest after experiencing the process firsthand as part of our initial social experiment.
How are you different from dating apps?
Dating apps are designed around scale, engagement, and ongoing usage. Our model is fundamentally different. We are building a community, not a product that depends on people staying single.
Our goal is not only to help members find meaningful connections, but to cultivate a trusted network of people who want to see others succeed as well. Many of our most valuable contributors are members who have already found significant relationships and choose to remain involved by making thoughtful introductions and strengthening the community.
When someone finds a life partner through this community, that is not a loss. It is the proof that the model works. Success fuels trust, referrals, and long term growth, so everyone wins.
How long does the process take?
Timing varies based on alignment, availability, and geography. Some members connect quickly, while others take more time.
We prioritize fit over speed and never force introductions to meet a timeline.
What happens after I’m accepted?
Once accepted, members complete a deeper onboarding and vetting process designed to ensure safety, integrity, and alignment. This includes steps to help us confirm that members meet community standards and that the environment remains respectful, secure, and trustworthy.
From there, introductions are made intentionally and privately, not in bulk.
Is there a guarantee?
No. Human connection cannot be guaranteed.
What we do guarantee is care, discretion, and thoughtful effort. We only accept members we believe we can genuinely serve.
Is my information private?
Absolutely. Privacy and discretion are foundational.
Member information is handled with care and is never shared outside of intentional, one to one introductions or approved community settings.
Will my profile be visible publicly?
No. This is not a public or searchable platform.
Who is this best suited for?
This community is best suited for people who are emotionally available, intentional about partnership, and ready to invest time and care into building something meaningful.
What if I’m not accepted?
Not being accepted is not a reflection of worth.
It often comes down to timing, geography, or current community balance. We encourage applicants to apply again in six months as the community continues to evolve and expand.
Are there age limits?
Members must be of legal age to participate. Beyond that, we focus on life stage, readiness, and alignment rather than strict age ranges.
Is this inclusive?
Yes. We value diversity of background, perspective, and experience, while remaining aligned around shared fundamentals and intentions.
How often are introductions made?
There is no quota.
Introductions are made when there is genuine alignment, not to meet a number.
Can I refer someone?
Yes. Referrals are not only welcomed, they are essential.
The strength of the community depends on members helping one another find meaningful partnerships. Thoughtful referrals play a critical role in building trust, alignment, and long term success for everyone.